Speaking the Truth

Why is it so hard to speak the truth? Or maybe, why are we afraid to speak the truth? It's interesting to me why it is so hard for people to say what needs to be said. I had an interesting conversation with a friend today about just this very subject. It takes a lot of guts to say the truth, to speak the unspeakable, to say the unpopular. I can honestly say that my penchant for speaking out has gotten me into a lot of trouble. It has been career limiting for me and has cost me relationship with people. There has been a price for my decision to speak out in certain circumstances. Yet, I continue to do it.

The other part of this equation that is so interesting to me is that often times, there are others who feel the same way that I do. They see the same things, have the same concerns, and may have even spoken about it, yet will not speak out. And to take it even a step further, often they will not support the person who does have the guts to speak out. Is it the fear of not being liked? Of not being accepted? Of being wrong?

BUT . . .nothing ever changes if we always agree. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not advocating fighting or arguing. However, if we cannot have honest discussions about all sides of an issue or opinion, how we can know really know if it's right? I know for myself, I have to speak out, I have to ask questions, and I have to be skeptical. It's part of my nature.

I'm reading the Four-Fold Path right now. This book talks about four archetypes based on the beliefs of many indigenous people. It's a fascinating book. One of the archetypes discussed in this book is the Warrior, who is usually the leader. I know for myself, I need to get in touch even more with my Warrior self so I can stand proudly and tall, respecting both myself and others when speaking the unspeakable. Speaking the truth takes courage.